Right now to flag something is to recommend that it be killed. I'm thinking of adding additional types of flags that are more specific, and less draconian. The goal is to create things
between a flag and a downvote, or maybe even to replace downvotes
in some cases. The two most obvious options are to allow
comments to be flagged as uncivil, and frivolous. The numbers of these flags (but not who issued them) would be displayed to
whoever posted the comment in question. So this would be a
way to tell someone to stop being a jerk, or posting dumb stuff,
without having to write a comment to say so.
Any opinions about the types of flags there should be, and how
they should work?
I don't know how to explain it, but I'd almost rather the flag options be worded as "Sorry, this comment seems: uncivil" or "Sorry, this comment seems: off-topic" to lighten it a bit. If they were a friend in real life, I'd take them aside and say "hey man, that comment was great, but you might want to soften the tone. It kind of came across as rude."
Downvotes end up being seen as judgments of your ideas, and I would love to be able to provide better feedback. This would be great if this could somehow give the user a nudge that they wouldn't feel defensive about.
It may seem like a minor point, but I feel a little guidance would go a long way in helping users get the sort of social cues they already get in a real-life conversation.
Edit: Instead of calling it out as flagging, I'd be okay with a downvote system that simply/optionally let you specify a reason to provide (with 3-4 common nicely-worded options). I don't care about upvote reasons at all.