I think it's important to separate making peace with the state of things from accepting it.
On the one hand, I consider it a personal goal to practice the ability of being happy despite my circumstances, accepting things as they are (and perhaps changing those things that I think I can change).
On the other hand, whether 'nature or nurture', I wish to make things better as well, to fight things I think are wrong, and build things that I think are right.
Keeping the latter from affecting the former is difficult sometimes, but fundamentally I see them as two completely separate matters.
On the one hand, I consider it a personal goal to practice the ability of being happy despite my circumstances, accepting things as they are (and perhaps changing those things that I think I can change).
On the other hand, whether 'nature or nurture', I wish to make things better as well, to fight things I think are wrong, and build things that I think are right.
Keeping the latter from affecting the former is difficult sometimes, but fundamentally I see them as two completely separate matters.