Huh? I think you've misunderstood me, I'm the same opinion as you. However, my point is that "fixing" a tomcat is much less of a trouble for the cat then spaying for a female cat, so instead of getting a female cat you should get a tomcat.

Not to mention male cats spraying. Yeah, no male really wants to chop off another male's bits but it's better for all (human and cat) involved.