In my case, I read the mother's article first, and then Tim Armstrong's original remarks and followup statements. This substantially colored my reading, and not for the better.
If I brought political biases to my reading, they had more to do with a pre-modern conception of loyalty: true authority is built on loyalty towards those who are led. And I looked at this from the perspective of a parent, and from that perspective, the lives of children often weigh heavier than things like self-survival.
AOL absolutely did not desert these parents, and that's where my post was is undeniably in the wrong—and where I wanted to revise it shortly after posting, before I got caught by noprocrast.
Now, I've said things in my life which were dumb and out-of-place. (In this thread, even.) And upon re-reading, I'm willing to extend Tim Armstrong the benefit of the doubt: he may have hit upon a spectacularly poor way to explain why employees were losing benefits, despite having the best of intentions. But his remarks could be easily and predictably de-anonymized, with obvious consequences:
On Thursday, within minutes of Armstrong’s utterance, my husband began fielding questions from colleagues: Wasn’t the CEO talking about his baby?
And not did these remarks effectively single out a specific employee, they also singled out a specific 1-year-old girl—who already has significant problems—and they linked her to the company-wide benefit reductions (at least for those coworkers who knew the parents). And this is where I got too angry to read Tim Armstrong's actual words accurately. Which I regret.
If I brought political biases to my reading, they had more to do with a pre-modern conception of loyalty: true authority is built on loyalty towards those who are led. And I looked at this from the perspective of a parent, and from that perspective, the lives of children often weigh heavier than things like self-survival.
AOL absolutely did not desert these parents, and that's where my post was is undeniably in the wrong—and where I wanted to revise it shortly after posting, before I got caught by noprocrast.
Now, I've said things in my life which were dumb and out-of-place. (In this thread, even.) And upon re-reading, I'm willing to extend Tim Armstrong the benefit of the doubt: he may have hit upon a spectacularly poor way to explain why employees were losing benefits, despite having the best of intentions. But his remarks could be easily and predictably de-anonymized, with obvious consequences:
On Thursday, within minutes of Armstrong’s utterance, my husband began fielding questions from colleagues: Wasn’t the CEO talking about his baby?
And not did these remarks effectively single out a specific employee, they also singled out a specific 1-year-old girl—who already has significant problems—and they linked her to the company-wide benefit reductions (at least for those coworkers who knew the parents). And this is where I got too angry to read Tim Armstrong's actual words accurately. Which I regret.