I wonder if restraining orders apply to third parties contacting on behalf of the restrained person? Suppose, it's violation only if it's proven that the person willingly made third party to make contact? (Otherwise it's nearly trivial to put anyone under a restraining order to courtroom, huh.)
If they did, the third party would have a right to be told about it proactively and a right to contest it. I am betting there is no jurisdiction that does this.
