A lot of people end up married, and when you put two $75,000 salaries together, it can make living and saving much easier. Unmarried people in big cities often have roommates, which makes it much easier to save and pay off debt. When I first moved to the DC area, I had three roommates and paid around $500 a month in rent and had no car.
Let's also not forget that around half the people in New York do not pay market rate for their rent. Talking about income and rent in NYC is more complicated than this thread would lead you to believe.
And if you live in a major city, you often have significantly lower transportation costs. Yes rent is high in urban areas, but transportation costs are very low. The two should be added together to compare cost of living between two areas.
> And if you live in a major city, you often have significantly lower transportation costs. Yes rent is high in urban areas, but transportation costs are very low.
Eh?
MTA: $104/month, unlimited
Muni: $74/month, "A" pass
CTA: $100/month, unlimited
You can buy a car for $150/month, and call it another $200 for gas/insurance, so $350 total.
The rent difference is way more than $350/month for an equal size/quality place.
Then consider all the other costs of urban living, like high sales tax:
Your numbers are off in essentially every area. Car payment is $200-$250 a month, insurance is $100 a month, gas is $50 a month, and call it an amortized $100 a month for repairs and other expenses. In total, an average car costs $500 a month. And never mind the cost for parking. In contrast, passes for public transportation cost somewhere from $50-$100, _but_ you can usually get them subsidized and/or pre-tax. In Boston, I'm able to get an unlimited pass through my employer for $35 pre-tax a month and my car costs me $500 post-tax a month. In major cities, cars are strictly a luxury. Note, I bought one a few months ago and couldn't be happier, but I'm under no illusions: it is a luxury.
If you are getting a T pass for $35 then your company is just paying for a portion of it; some companies give it to their employees for free, but that doesn't mean it's free.
That said, a T-pass is $70/month and most people can pay that pre-tax. Still considerably less than car ownership.
I highly doubt the average car payment is anywhere near $150 a month. That's really low for even a lease, let alone actually trying to own it outright. And you're completely forgetting maintenance and repairs (oil, tires, batteries, lights, environmental checks, repairs). Even a modest car is probably at least $500 a month with everything added together, and from what I've seen, a lot of people can't make do with a modest car.
And then if you lose your job, you have no defined transportation expenses. Lose your job and you still owe all of that money for your car payment, insurance and whatever else.
And again, many of us are married. Needing multiple cars, gas, parking for two people (or additional cars for kids stuck in the middle of nowhere) starts to ad up.
$500/mo for a modest car? Wow, people on here have a warped sense of finances. $500/mo is a lot of car. My brand new car with all the bells and whistles is $380/mo and I'm very happy with it.
Instead of a new car, I could've used my down payment to buy a used car instead.
To clarify, I'm not saying $500 for just the car, but $500 for the car payment, gas, insurance and savings for future maintenance.
I think $500, when you factor in all of that, is a fairly modest car.
My wife and I have a Honda Fit that is paid off (I would call this a pretty modest car), and when a car reaches a certain point in its life, you may'll have more maintenance to pay for.
Let's also not forget that around half the people in New York do not pay market rate for their rent. Talking about income and rent in NYC is more complicated than this thread would lead you to believe.
And if you live in a major city, you often have significantly lower transportation costs. Yes rent is high in urban areas, but transportation costs are very low. The two should be added together to compare cost of living between two areas.