It should be the most obvious thing in the world that whether you take a fundamentally welcoming and positive mindset towards people vs. a negative and unwelcoming mindset, the effects of either will propagate and magnify themselves over time.
But when you're insecure the feelings you get from the latter are more comforting in the short term.
I can assure you the decorum isn’t exactly being maintained and downvotes don’t exactly do much when there’s a consensus that a certain thing is okay to do.
But when you're insecure the feelings you get from the latter are more comforting in the short term.