Have you considered that the problems you encounter in daily life just happen to be more present in the training data than problems other users encounter?

Stitching together well-known web technologies and protocols in well-known patterns, probably a good success rate.

Solving issues in legacy codebases using proprietary technologies and protocols, and non-standard patterns. Probably not such a good success rate.

Have you considered you have no knowledge of how I'm using AI?

Yes I have. I did some research and read some blog posts, and nothing really helped. Do you have any good resources I could look at maybe?

I think you would benefit from a personalized approach. If you like, send me a Loom or similar of you attempting to complete one software task with AI, that fails as you said, and I'll give you my feedback. Email in profile.

This is the correct approach. Also see: https://ezyang.github.io/ai-blindspots/