From the guidelines:

> Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.

in times like this I'm reminded of "every accusation is a confession"

There's a dutch phrase I hear often, like "Wat je zegt ben jezelf, met je kop door de helft"

Whatever you say about someone else, you're saying about yourself. It's an idiom, so the translation is a bit funky.

Seems like a disingenuous and cynical reading to me.