I agree virtual meetings are tiresome, but aren't in person meetings tiresome too? I honestly don't feel like there's that much different between an in person meeting and virtual meeting in terms of mental strain.
Especially getting to and from them. I was always exhausted and stressed out and angry by the time I commuted to work. My blood pressure legitimately went down when I stopped having to commute into an office every day.
I think the big difference is that with virtual meetings you're essentially spending an hour staring into a fixed-distance lightbulb, which is more fatiguing than having a variety of distances and things to look at.