First, understand that not everyone is like you. Many people are vastly different, and have attitudes and things they care about that do not match your preferences.

Some people seem to be totally fine with the idea of a platform that sells data about them to third parties, and tries to track them all over the internet. Because they believe they get value out of the platform, but are unable or unwilling to pay for it with their own money.

I'm not like these people, but I understand that they exist, and more or less understand why they want what they want.