what's outrageous is that it has become acceptable to attack men, especially younger men, who are literal incels, on the basis that they haven't managed for some reason to secure any partners

it's borderline psychopathic to demean people on that basis, to the point they become defensive of the fact because of the added stigma, and like in this blog they try to carve a space for themselves out of the label rather than denouncing the injustice of its usage