This seems extreme to me to be that empathetic when someone has broken into your home while you are inside, even in hindsight with the fact that it was non-violent situation for you. Coming into someone's home when you know they are there is another level of seriousness IMO. It takes a certain amount of confidence to do this - whether the are on drugs or not I don't think has any relevance. If someone were to do this to my home I would be looking at it like it's a me or them type of situation. There is no reason to stay vengeful after the event, but being this empathetic strikes me as overdoing it.