Givers think that conversations unfold as a series of invitations, while takers think conversations unfold as a series of declarations. When giver meets giver or taker meets taker, all is well. However, when giver meets taker, giver gives and taker takes, and giver gets resentful.
I think good conversations require taking turns in the giving receiving roles. This is, I believe a prerequisite for a good friendship.
And for good friends the turns could be weeks long rather than minutes. As you have proven to each other you care about each overs life already, so it can adjust to circumstances.
