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A few years ago my daughter was 3 and was going through a phase where she’d go up to any random stranger she met and ask “hello, what’s your name?” Talked to a lot of random people this way. Nobody can resist talking to an inquisitive 3 year old. I remember I was in an airport waiting for a flight to Boston and happened to talk to a guy who’s son just started college at the same college I had gone to. Which was surprising since it isn't very well known nor anywhere near Boston or where we were.

I was always torn whether the practice of a small child “talking to strangers” was dangerous but I couldn’t bring myself to discourage it.



My kids did the same thing - turns out it let them understand what normal behaviour looks like. When someone offered one of them something weird and dangerous, they recognized that it wasn't normal.


Good point, I’ve also been a little wary, but this comment makes me feel better about letting the kids talk. Thanks.

Aside, favorite thing my kid did was say to a random old guy “hey pops, what’s your name”




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