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> No one really goes to college and grad school to learn

I did. As did many of my classmates. I've found engineering fascinating since I was a child so I enjoyed the opportunity.

> How many times have you been on a date and you tell or ask the other person where they wen to college, what they majored in, etc

How is this "[flexing] educational elitism"? That is standard small talk to gauge another person's life experience and interests.



> I did. As did many of my classmates. I've found engineering fascinating since I was a child so I enjoyed the opportunity.

I was told from a young age college was about learning and not grades. I believed that lie, aggressively optimized for learning over grades and that was a huge mistake.

Several times I skipped doing boring unnecessary homework or going to a useless class to work on projects that would teach me more. I would routinely do things like skip class to go above and beyond on interesting projects.

Despite getting above a 90 on all of my projects and exams, I graduated with a 2.4. I would routinely have calls with potential employers where they would say "wow after talking to you we're really impressed with your knowledge of c.s. and the projects you've completed. Oh btw I didn't see your gpa on your resume, what was it? Oh, I'm sorry. We only take people who have a gpa about 2.5/3.0/3.5. but don't worry you seem super personable and smart I know you're going to find something".

Now I tell all of my younger siblings. Optimize for grades and that's the only thing that matters. You can always pick up a book but you'll never be able to fix your gpa. My 2.4 and my wife's 4.0 continue to influence our lives (albeit now much more mildly) 10 years later.




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