Since the advise was directed to the OP and he labels himself as a "shy, kind of an introvert" person I was kind of directing my response at that specifically, though an introvert that's also a person who want's to make friends is a total oxymoron.

You're totally right in that the OP is probably not an introvert, but I found it easier to use the term loosely for my advice. Should have known better since I am actually an introvert, but I have boatloads of friends and good social skills.

In any case, great advice. Hope the OP reads it also.