You are absolutely right. I didn't word my feelings very well. I am not so much scared of the money part or the responsibility of a marriage; I am put off by the ugly nature of the divorce - fighting over money with someone with whom you have spent a good part of your life and will still have to keep some sort of relationship going after divorce because you have children together.

I would understand if one party seems to be unfairly screwing over the other person and not giving them enough money. They are both independently wealthy and have very successful career.

Anyways, I am sure I have much to learn about human relationship and marriage life. It just seems very sad and the only people who are benefitting from this ugly situation are the lawyers, who are going to milk this case for as long as they can for as much as they can.