I have been reading an unfortunately large amount of articles here on Hacker News seemingly deterring prospective students like myself from entering a university, especially from the field of Computer Science. They cite large tuition/living costs and "wastes of time" as not worth the potential four year education gained. These articles and blog posts claim that jumping straight into industry is an acceptable and perhaps even favorable alternative.
I refuse to buy into this idea as I crave the challenge that I feel a good computer science program can bring as well as want to experience the good ol' college life. Are there still places out there that offer a diverse undergraduate Computer Science program that goes beyond teaching Java and C++ and focuses on the application of these technologies to create things? Are there schools out there that will let undergrads touch research and tackle the problems that current computer scientists face today? Or is this asking too much of a pre-graduate program?
That's not computer science, that's software engineering. If that's what you're interested in, you could look at RIT. That said, I'm guessing you're in high school, which means you may well not really know what you want. Personally, I wouldn't recommend doing a software engineering degree. If you get a solid CS education, the software stuff is relatively easy to pick up.
If you can get in, I highly recommend Stanford. Your chances of doing research as an undergrad aren't great, but you'll learn a lot, meet smart people, and classes like CS210 will give you a little of the practical software experience you mentioned. Plus, it's an awesome undergrad experience, one that I'm sad I missed out on.
If you want to do research as an undergrad, I know from experience that this is possible at Georgetown. The department there is tiny, but has several good professors, and many of my friends there did research as undergrads. There are definition downsides to doing CS there (department has less resources, you're unlikely to meet any potential cofounders, etc.) but overall I think I got a good education there (enough to prepare me well for a MS at Stanford, anyway).