Sure there's always more technical stuff to learn, but after you've been doing it for so long you hit a point of diminishing returns. It makes way more sense to just put technical research on the back burner and start leveling up skills in other areas of life.

You can end up spending a few weeks or even days learning something else which adds huge returns in your life, and it even comes back to enhance your development career.

For example in your case, what if you continued working as is but then spent 3 weeks approaching 5 girls a day. At some point you'll probably start a relationship, which in turn motivates you so much that it trickles into your work life.

Suddenly you have a new outlook on life, maybe you end up going to more meetups or find places to talk to other developers. Next thing you know, you've quit your job at "decent money" because you met someone willing to give you "great money" to work on a project that aligns perfectly with what you want.

In this example, gaining a bit of communication skills skyrocketed your happiness in life and boosted your career. I'd bet even if you spent the next 10 years locked in a dungeon learning more tech skills instead you would be in way worse shape as a person, both financially and in happiness.

[0]: https://nickjanetakis.com/blog/have-you-hit-the-point-of-dim...

Your financial situation is part of a much bigger problem you are trying to solve.

How to have a good life. Think you should optimize with that in mind.

Completely agree with the diminishing return comment. If social interactions/relationships are lacking in your life, you'll get a very high return for your time spent.

(Obviously extremely easy to say to you typing on my iPhone. What has always worked for me is taking the smallest possible step and turning that into a habit.)

Your career is not you. Your career is not your life. You and your life are far more important than your job.

You should read the book "Your Money or Your Life" to get some perspective (https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Life-Transforming-Relation...)

In practice I think you can actually be really good at your job, not work long hours at home, and still stay "competitive", but that's a bigger discussion.

So I'm working on a book about how you can succeed as a programmer and still have a sane workweek, leaving you time to do all the other things that matter in life (friends, family, taking care of your health, hobbies. nothing wrong with videogames!). Still in progress, but meanwhile you can sign up for a course based on it: https://codewithoutrules.com/saneworkweek/

So learning to balance different areas of your life, is something you will need to practice anyway, and everyone has to face that kind of issue.

I don't think there a universal answer, but at some point, it means you have simplify your life or let go some things. You can not master everything, you can not control everything. Pursue what interests you, but accept to be ignorant of others. Knowing that a technology or framework exists, what it does broadly, is already half the job. If you ever need it, it will be the time for a deep dive.