> They looked up to me for leadership and that also meant defining what was and what was not allowed.
I'm guessing he's just paraphrasing what went on. People judging the person who came late and left early. The leader might know what is going on, but maybe the person itself keeps it for themselves. Then others might wonder why just one person gets so much leeway. This is basically lack of understanding and trust.
Secondly, he seems to indicate that sometimes people might come in late and leave early while he doesn't know at all why it is happening.
He's from the Netherlands so can relate a bit more (though I don't work in IT). There are loads of people who just do their time. Meaning, come in on time, follow their lunch time exactly, leave on time. This because their value their personal life and work is just something you do. If you have lots of such people, they won't understand why the rest doesn't do the same. Leading to resentment, etc.
Where I work someone has been taking loads of personal time for the last 3 years. Think of a minimum of 0.5 day/week and this excludes taking days off. Everyone understands why, and there's no issue. However understanding a manager might be, you also have to deal with the entire team as well as other teams. That you know why you did something or that your manager knows still might not be enough.
> They looked up to me for leadership and that also meant defining what was and what was not allowed.
I'm guessing he's just paraphrasing what went on. People judging the person who came late and left early. The leader might know what is going on, but maybe the person itself keeps it for themselves. Then others might wonder why just one person gets so much leeway. This is basically lack of understanding and trust.
Secondly, he seems to indicate that sometimes people might come in late and leave early while he doesn't know at all why it is happening.
He's from the Netherlands so can relate a bit more (though I don't work in IT). There are loads of people who just do their time. Meaning, come in on time, follow their lunch time exactly, leave on time. This because their value their personal life and work is just something you do. If you have lots of such people, they won't understand why the rest doesn't do the same. Leading to resentment, etc.
Where I work someone has been taking loads of personal time for the last 3 years. Think of a minimum of 0.5 day/week and this excludes taking days off. Everyone understands why, and there's no issue. However understanding a manager might be, you also have to deal with the entire team as well as other teams. That you know why you did something or that your manager knows still might not be enough.