ACE 5, I'm mid 30s now, standard bad stuff, parents died years ago.
I stay somewhat mentaly healthy by being relentlessly busy. I don't give much weight to accomplishment, fear of being in a situation of poverty or vulnerability again drives me. I have some underlying mental issues, busyness helps keep them at bay and the sadness and pain has faded over time. At low points I try and remember it comes in waves.
I have a wonderful wife and young child, they are my satisfaction and I feel lucky every day. I don't expect to live long past 60 due to medical and historic reasons, so I intend to stay busy for the next ~25 years, do my best by them and try and leave a net positive on the world.
Didn't know this existed, thank you for posting, reading these has been an eye opener.
Same here, or more often I'll just wait to start eating if it comes early. I was selfconsious about it at first but staying in range is more important to me than any awquard feeling saying "please start, I just need to wait a few minutes", no one ever makes a fuss.
I think it depends where in the UK you are, as I believe different areas healthcare is run differently. This has not been my experience, I've found the care to be good, as long as I'm willing to put in the work on my side and be proactive on occasion about looking for help. In my local area the diabetic team is stretched thinly (that's what the staff said to me themselves) and I am relatively proactive with reaching out, research and asking questions. With that said they really want me to succeed in keeping in a healthy range and have been a massive support as much as they can. Also the fact I don't have to pay for Insulin or my CGM is something I am really thankful for. Threats of criminal punishments for lazy medical professionals doesn't sound like a good fix to be honest.
I stay somewhat mentaly healthy by being relentlessly busy. I don't give much weight to accomplishment, fear of being in a situation of poverty or vulnerability again drives me. I have some underlying mental issues, busyness helps keep them at bay and the sadness and pain has faded over time. At low points I try and remember it comes in waves.
I have a wonderful wife and young child, they are my satisfaction and I feel lucky every day. I don't expect to live long past 60 due to medical and historic reasons, so I intend to stay busy for the next ~25 years, do my best by them and try and leave a net positive on the world.
Didn't know this existed, thank you for posting, reading these has been an eye opener.